The art of being left on read



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Can you not handle being left on read?

Why do you believe you are owed an immediate reply?


Recently I was contacted by a photography online about doing a shoot, great, I agreed to shoot. However it's taken me a few weeks to come back with thoughts on a shoot and how's best to do it. 

I work as a creative designer, costumier & circus performer, I dont reply untill I'm ready. It's practically pointless without a plan.

As somebody with ADHD/autism I find it shocking that over recent times people just expect an instant reply.

Well, that ain't me & not will it ever be.


If you come forward with zero plan, strategy, collection of images which you have found you like as inspo, I'm going to go away and do this for you before replying.


The following is just bizarre- 

I have no idea how somebody has linked my account on model sites back to Facebook other than reverse image search or AI picture of my face, but today a photographer contacted me via Facebook on my private account because I hadn't responded to their message.

This is absolutely a huge red flag.

Please dont step outside the realm you initiated the chat, don't force messages down people's throats and overall, be patient.

The photography instantly excused themselves as autistic. I'm sorry, but this is still not acceptable to go across the internet stalking and searching models across various platforms.


Anybody else have this gripe??




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